Sacred Heart Greenwich Middle School Parent Blog

By Margaret Rock, from: Mashable

Some things don’t change as girls hit their teen years, no matter what technology is in vogue. Friends become the end-all, be-all of social life, parents are embarrassing and don’t know anything, and getting cut down by your peers is devastating.

Add phones to the mix, and they can stunt a valuable part of child’s growth: learning to relate to others, as well as understanding themselves.

Tweens’ social media use and texting may look like positive social skills, but excessive use of these activities actually hinders emotional intelligence, or EI, which researchers agree is a better predictor of successful marriages, stronger friendships and even financial success.

As Daniel Goleman points out in his pivotal book, “Emotional Intelligence,” 80% of a person’s success depends on EI — skills like identifying, understanding and managing emotions in a way to relieve stress, communicate effectively and empathize…

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